Scripts & Powerful Questions — Reference
Short opening scripts
Invite to explore: “I’d like to understand how that went and see how I can help. Do you have 15 minutes now?”
Redirect from giving orders to coaching: “I can suggest an approach, but I’d like to hear your thinking first — what ideas do you have?”
Sample prompts by situation
Problem solving
- What happened and when did you notice it?
- What do you think is causing this?
- If you could try one experiment this week, what would it be?
Development / Growth
- What skill do you want to develop this quarter?
- What would practicing that look like on a daily basis?
- Who could help you practice or give feedback?
Performance feedback
- When X happened, what were you trying to achieve?
- What would you do differently next time?
- How can I support you to make that change?
10 Powerful questions you can memorize
- What outcome are you hoping for?
- What options are you weighing?
- What might get in the way?
- What would success look like in one week / one month?
- What did you learn from the last time you tried this?
- What would you do if resources were unlimited?
- Who else needs to be involved?
- How will you measure progress?
- What’s the smallest useful step you can take now?
- How can I help you take that step?
Short role-play scenarios (practice prompts)
Use these to practice with a peer for 10–15 minutes.
- Missed deadline: Coach asks opening questions, explores root causes, and co-designs a mitigation plan.
- Low initiative: Coach explores motivation, context, and small experiments to increase ownership.
- Development conversation: Coach helps create a practice plan with measurable signals and feedback sources.
Keep this reference handy. Over time you’ll find a subset of questions that fit your voice — that’s the point. Coaching is a skill you shape, not a script you memorize.
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